1. Who gets invited to
swinger parties?
In swinger parties at clubs are usually normal inviting couples,
unaccompanied females and select unaccompanied males in the lifestyle. All
attendees are members of the club.
Those who attend swinger house party are by invitation only.
The host themselves chooses who they wish to invite to their home for a house
party.
2. What kind of people may
I meet at a swinger party?
Age range of swingers attending parties will differ from
party to party. Most will range from mid 20’s to mid 50’s. There are people (swinger
couples and singles) from all different background and race who will also go to
swinger’s party.
3. Which differences are
there between swinger parties at clubs and those at a house?
4. Is it hard to
organize a swinger party at my house?
It is not hard to organize your very own swinger house
party.
5. If a swinger couple is
invited to a swinger house party, do they need to take anything to the party?
Some host may ask you to bring your own bottle of alcohol
and drinks for your own consumption and a plate of finger food to share but,
usually at swinger house party you and partner need not require to take
anything other then yourselves and some toiletries for your personal use. If
the host requires you to bring anything it would be written on the invitation.
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6. Are there any rules when
attending swinger party?
Rules are only formed and to be followed by everyone so that
the party can go smoothly. In this way, those attending can enjoy themselves
and have lots of fun.
7. Is there a "proper" way to dress
up to attend a swinger party?
Yes, everyone should dress up properly for swinger events
and/or parties. What does it means by dressing up? It is, if the party has a
theme, dress up for it and be part of the fun. For those parties without a
theme, dress up for the occasion.
Avoid wearing throngs, sneakers, sandals, t-shirt, jeans or
pants which are rip or has holes, and caps. Dressing in these will see you as not
very popular among other swingers.
A good piece of advice: Ladies should dress up to impress
while Gentlemen should be classy.
8. Do I have to worry about
unsafe sex?
There is nothing to worry about unsafe sex in the swinging
lifestyle specially when attending swinger parties or events. Many swingers are
responsible people who practice safe sex with the use of condoms and with
regard body check for AIDS and common STD's.
Clubs who are on-premises usually provide condoms for the
use by all its members. The same applies for house parties. If you have a
special favorite regarding brands then, you are more then welcome to bring your
own.
If a person or couple refuse to practice safe sex, don't feel
bad or a little rude to say "no" to any sexual intercourse or
contact. Since you have the right to protect yourself and others you can always
do it.
9. If in case I don't want to
participate in the party, can I watch?
You have every right to not participating in any activities,
especially sexual activities if you do not wish to. At anytime where you don't want
to participate just say "no thank you, but thank you for asking".
If you prefer to watch (voyeurism) other people engaged in
sexual activities it'll be polite to ask for permission first, but in most
cases they are more then happy (and used) to show off in front of you (exhibitionism).
10. Are there any specific
times that my partner and I have to leave by at swinger party?
It is well-mannered to arrive and leave the party together
unless prior arrangement have been made beforehand with the club or the host of
the party.
There are no specific times to leave a party but, often when
you see others start leaving it is time to wound down and leave too.
Some swingers clubs have rooms available for guests who wish
to stay overnight, but prior arrangement must be made. For a swinger party at a
house, sometimes the host will offer couples to stay overnight, this needs
prior arrangement too.
11. Can we take swinger photos
or take swinger videos at swinger parties?
The use of cameras, video equipments and mobile phone with
in-built cameras are prohibited from all swinger clubs. Unless prior
arrangements are made photos can't be taken at some private parties, but only
with consent of the swingers you are taking.
If in doubt, ask before you take any video or photo
equipments with you to parties.