CONTROL

One of those sex games that require you to be kind of close to a person (having at least had foreplay). 

Object of the game:  You and your SO sit/stand/lay as close to each other as possible without touching or kissing, but rather trying to deny the other the satisfaction of knowing you have no control.  All the while you're in their face whispering really erotic things that you will do to them if they give in.  No touching, but you try and get as close to it as possible.  Or if there is touching, just no touching or anything sexual. You build up an incredible tension if this goes on for a good 15 to 20 minutes and at then end, when someone finally gives in, you don't care who won.

Another is sort of a related sex game in which one person is given 1 minute to get a "raise" out of the other (for guys its easier to tell, so I lost a lot of the time) by kissing, or heavy petting (over the clothes). The first person to lose has to do what the other wants first.

Object of the game:  Get a group of people who are willing to get together, say once a week for several weeks.  Best is couples, but you could revise if there are singles in the group. The first time everyone gets together you are only allowed to touch yourself, blindfolded.  Basically everyone gets themselves off and you hear but do not see.

Second time is the same, only you remove your blindfold.
Third time you are allowed to only touch others
Fourth time you can kiss
Fifth time you can lick, then suck, and more.

The real fun is bringing in new players.  The whole group can do it all, but the newcomer can only touch self, blindfolded and group can do nothing.  Next time blindfold comes off.  Next new person can touch and be touched by others, etc.  If everyone is in a hurry, you can make the steps every 15 - 30 minutes, change the steps, etc.

Guess Mate

One person from each swinger couple must go outside the room. You must have planned some questions to the group and/or to couples. The ones who stay inside answer the questions about their date, spousse, mate, wife, husband or whatever. They should answer the questions the way they think their partner would answer if asked the same thing. You must provide them some to write the answers on, in this way , you are sure they can give the same answer when asking the other half of teh couples. Point values for each question that matchs must be assigned. Then , bring out the next set of questions and this time reverse the inside and outside roles. The swinger coulpe with most matches get a prize. It is nice to give them they can use or share during the night.

Musical Partners

It is needed to have an even number of people to actually participate in this game. (The host can be the person to stop the music). Put some muic to play and select 2 people to dance with each other (choose fast or slow). Then someone turns the music off at random intervals, then, the 2 people dancing select new partners. Continue to play the game and select new partners until everyone is dancing.

Erotic Alphabets

You will start with the letter “A” and caress or kiss the body part of another player which starts with the letter “A”. The other player will take the next turn and move on to letter “B” and perform the same action on another player. You will be amazed by how the both of you can get to come out with a body part for every letter.

Whose Penis/Ass/Tit/Pussy is that Anyway

This is a game we have heard of where wives are blindfolded and have to guess which penis is their husbands.  For a more intense version make them guess using only their mouth.  Of course the inverse of this game is the husbands identifying breasts, ass, or pussy.

Wagon Wheel

Everybody lays nude in a circle, with their heads toward the center of the circle.  That is boy, girl, boy, girl, etc. You play some music and the idea is to fondle and play with the girl to your right until the music stops.